This just can't be true. Is it? A couple days ago I was talking with a good friend when the subject of attraction between men and women came up. During the conversation she (who, for the purposes of this discussion, will remain nameless) said, in general when women are getting ready to go out, they are more cognizant of women's opinions rather than those of men. In other words, they prefer that other women find what they are wearing attractive than men. What??
Let's be clear, we are talking about adult, heterosexual, single women heading out to social settings where they might be introduced to a gentleman they like. And when we use the term "attractive" we are talking about whether someone is sexually appealing. As in, "Man, she is sexy!"
Now I know I might be missing something, but Doesn't that approach defeat the whole purpose? Could you imagine a brother staring at the mirror wondering out loud, "Man, I hope the dudes at the club don't think these jeans make my but look fat." Or "I can't wear these Js. They are so 2004!" ... I'M A GROWN ASS MAN DOG! What do I look like wanting another dude to be checking me out!
Here is my question: Who should be the judge of what ensemble is most attractive on the opposite sex?
And since the majority of you don't respond to my questions anyway, feel free to make this one rhetorical.
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Honestly for a dude it would ultimately be based on your own judgement (or rather trial and error).... since no dude or should I say most dudes would never comment on such matters ... all that really matters for guys is that you are clean and will not offend or drive away attractive members of the opposite sex.
ReplyDeleteI think that comes from women always being in competition with each other, secretly of course. If the next woman doesn't "find me desirable" (hate on my look), what man will? Just my opinion
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